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  • From Damian Grant on A posh word for it...

    Patrick, you should take consolation in your affliction by apophenia and pareidolia — or perhaps, as you seem to fear, by a toxic mixture of the two so far unidentified by science. Mark Antony provides all the evidence of being a fellow-sufferer, as he laments the forfeiture of his ‘visible shape’ towards the end of the play:

    Sometime we see a cloud that’s dragonish,
    A vapour sometime like a bear or lion,
    A towered citadel, a pendent rock,
    A forked tower, or blue promontory
    With trees upon’t that nod unto the world
    And mock our eyes with air…
    That which is now a horse even with a thought
    The rack disdains, and makes it indistinct
    As water is in water.

    And Antony’s author was evidently a man who invested heavily in this condition; a man whose mind was a kaleidoscope of superimposed images, a privileged panopticon from whose vantage point all things in heaven and on earth were simultaneously visible and interchangeable, understood only and always in terms of each other. The condition is most memorably summarized by his man Theseus in The Dream, with his description of the ‘seething brains’ of the lunatic, the lover, and the poet; the poet whose privilege it is to give ‘to airy nothing/A local habitation and a name.’

    So do keep that brain of yours seething, making those connections for us which we expect a poet/biographer to provide. And don’t be afraid (as I’m sure you aren’t, really) by those long words wheeled in by Holofernes the schoolmaster. He and his like ‘have been at a great feast of languages, and stolen the scraps’!

    Damian Grant

    2016/06/28 at 11:24 am
    • From Patrick Miles on A posh word for it...

      Damian, how could I not be comforted and encouraged by such a gracious, civilised, scholarly and sympathetic Comment… Thank you! ‘Toxic mixture’ is, I think, spot on. I promise I will use no more Holofernes-parle after today’s post on brain surgery! How wonderful, though, those lines of the great Erotomane are…I had quite forgotten them, and they hit me as though they were written only yesterday. The scene itself, which I naturally looked up on the Net, is unbearably moving (what a part for the ‘extra’ EROS!). My own favourite quotation from The Dream is: ‘When the players are all dead, there needs none be blamed’! I’m sure you will understand. Patrick

      2016/06/29 at 12:46 pm
  • From Jim D G Miles on Progress

    That Tom Murphy quote is great, yet so familiar.

    “Tell me what it’s about, because I don’t know any longer”.

    I thought I had read similar in a Terry Gilliam interview after shooting Brazil. Or maybe an Aaron Sorkin character says it somewhere…

    However, google came up empty-handed. A Tom Murphy original! (?)

    2016/06/23 at 10:42 pm
  • From John Pym on 'A sort of mother to us all'

    Foxwold – the house that Kittie visited in 1930 to advise my grandfather Evey on the marriage of his eldest son – was a home dominated by dogs: in iron-fenced outdoor kennels, in the kitchen, in the billiards room and in many of the spacious bedrooms. Some were quite respectable creatures, especially a succession of intelligent black Standard Poodles. But many were of doubtful parentage and a few were highly unpredictable: Willy the unprepossessing black ‘kitchen dog’ was one of these – though in old age he promoted himself from the kitchen and was allowed to sit beside Evey’s chair in the evening, where like all the other dogs he received his daily ration of three chocolate drops. The dogs’ habits were all known and tolerated – and it was assumed that even the smallest child knew which dog to steer clear of. They were all loved in a distinctively offhand English manner. No one seemed to mind unduly when they misbehaved or ran away (they usually came back of their own accord). ‘It is very good for a baby to be licked by a dog,’ Evey’s daughter Elizabeth said with authority, and no one said this was madness. One poodle, quite forgetting itself, consumed twelve portions of brown bread and smoked salmon laid out on the dining table just before the lunch-time guests sat down. The story of this incident was told with a smile for at least thirty years. Foxwold smelled of many things: linseed oil; lavender; dust on leather; apples; cigarette smoke; peat smoke; paraffin; beeswax; ladies’ soap; damp flannel sheets; the outdoors blowing in through an open window; old tennis rackets and broken lacrosse sticks – but above all it smelt of dogs, or so I remember it as a child in the 1950s. Kittie’s Bunty must have been a very singular companion indeed in a house full of free-spirited and sometimes frenzied dogs to have merited two references in my father’s letters. (Oh, and the rather primitive bathrooms of the house also of course smelt of Jeyes Fluid.)

    2016/06/17 at 7:55 pm
  • From jennyhands on 'A sort of mother to us all'

    How nice to hear that a “sort of son” (as Jack implies) sees Kittie as “extremely charming” and with “attractive qualities”. So she is not just good to him personally, but is someone who in general can be liked and admired. Your excerpts from Jack’s letters added a lot for me.
    (I enjoyed the dog description too, probably because we have a Jack Russell terrier. Bunty is a dog to irritate visitors at times, but with enough character to get a mention.)

    2016/06/17 at 3:03 pm
  • From Harry Ricketts on A terrible anniversary

    Yes, mourning. Why can’t/shouldn’t one mourn those one never knew and now long dead? Thank you (and Clare Hopkins) for writing so movingly about George Calderon who was only a name to me.
    I want to pick up on Clare’s query about Robert Nichols’s strange usage of ‘Lead’ with a diacritic over the ‘a’ in his poem ‘The Assault’. Earlier in the poem occur the lines “A stream of lead raves / Over us from the left … (we safe under cover!)” in which ‘lead’ is rendered just like that without diacritic and obviously means ‘bullets’. The later lines (with the diacritic twice) read: “On, on. Lead. Lead. Hail. / Spatter. Whirr! Whirr!” Here ‘Lead’ seems to look both ways. Back to “On, on” (with the sense of the officer-speaker urging himself to lead his men), but also forwards to “Hail. / Spatter” etc (ie a hail of bullets and hence ‘lead’ in that sense). I wish I’d discussed this fascinating detail of the poem in my group-biography “Strange Meetings: The Lives of the Poets of the Great War” (Pimlico, 2012) in which Nichols appears in several chapters along with his more famous contemporaries. For what it’s worth, I think Clare is right that Nichols put the diacritic there deliberately to elongate the word (as ‘Leeed. Leeed’), emphasising that he means here the officer’s self-injunction to ‘lead’ his men notwithstanding the hail of bullets, and thus distinguishing the word from the other sense. During his brief time at the Front, Nichols never did ‘lead’ his men in this kind of brave crazy attack (“Cool madness” as he calls it in the poem), but at some level he desperately wished he had and imaginatively allowed himself to in the poem, just as he allowed himself more extended service etc in other poems in “Ardours and Endurances”, the sequence in which ‘The Assault’ appears. This imaginative compensation has its own poignancy, I think, and gives a glimpse of one aspect of the extraordinary pressure those who served were under (have you been ‘over the top’, shown your mettle under fire?).
    When Nichols read the poem aloud as I imagine he did at war-charity and other readings (though I found no definite record of him delivering this particular poem), the meaning of the word would have been clear. As it stands on the page, however, ‘Lead’ with a diacritic visually remains a pun, suggesting both of its possible senses. Which is perhaps fitting. It is ‘lead’ after all into which the officer is ‘leading’ his men.

    2016/06/17 at 12:16 am
    • From Clare Hopkins on A terrible anniversary

      Very many thanks Harry for such a comprehensive and helpful answer to my question about Robert Nichols’ line ‘Lead. Lead.’ I really wanted these words to relate to the junior officer leading his men, because this reading seems to make ‘the Assault’ a better – i.e. a deeper and more complex – poem. How sad that Robert ‘desperately wished’ he had taken part in some ‘brave crazy attack’; and how bad that a man who had succumbed to PTSD (as we now call it) should have felt he had failed to meet the expectations of society.

      I find myself wondering why Robert Nichols is not better known today. Is it because he did not suffer enough at the front? Or because his poems are too long for the GCSE English Literature syllabus? I also find myself reflecting on Gallipoli and poetry in general. The Dardanelles campaign is very little remembered in the UK, and none of our canon of well-known war poetry relates to it. Is this chicken-and-egg? Discuss.

      Another question, for you Patrick: George Calderon seems to have turned his hand to many genres – journalism, satire, drama, comedy, reviews, works on linguistics and anthropology…. Did he never attempt a poem?

      2016/06/22 at 6:09 pm
      • From Patrick Miles on A terrible anniversary

        Dear Clare and Harry,

        I am enjoying your dialogue very much. I hope it continues, and I hope as ever that others contribute! Meanwhile, I can add some crumbs.

        A distinguished Professor of Linguistics has come on board and agrees that the breve on the ‘a’ in ‘Lead.’ doesn’t really make sense if it is meant to lengthen the diphthong to ‘Leed’. He writes: ‘I haven’t anything helpful to say about the diacritic. Seems he could see there was potentially a problem, but didn’t give a clear indicator of what was intended. Maybe there’s someone who would know about conventions of the time, who would be confident about what was meant.’

        After I speculated about Gallipoli war poetry in my post of 1 May 2015, a follower sent as Comment to that post the text of the Australian Sydney Bolitho’s long poem, and another directed me to A.P. Herbert’s collection Half-hours at Helles (1916), from which I quoted powerful lines about the Third Battle of Krithia in my post of 5 June 2015. But these, I would say, are verse. I’m sure Harry will know of ANZAC poetry written in or about the Gallipoli campaign.

        I have never come across a poem written by George, but he was an extremely accomplished writer of verse. I suspect he had a perfect metrical ear. He could certainly call on a vast range of rhymes. The pantomimes Cinderella: An Ibsen Pantomime and The Brave Little Tailor suggest an enviable fluency and quality. This natural talent also enabled him to produce the pastiche Tudor pentameter of Cromwell: Mall o’Monks (1907-9) and the absolutely first-rate translation of the bylina (long narrative poem) Dobrynia published by Henry Newbolt in the Monthly Review of December 1901. In his memoirs, Newbolt said he was as proud of publishing this version of George’s as he was long poems by Binyon and Yeats.

        George’s taste in English poetry seems to have been boring and half-hearted. However, the poetry of Tahitian songs wowed him! So, yes, I think he did write poetry when he translated a whole set of these Tahitian songs and utes, which Kittie included when she edited George’s Tahitian travelogue for publication (1921).

        2016/06/25 at 11:21 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on A terrible anniversary

    This post made me feel desperately sad. Sad for George, dying as he did; sad for you, Patrick, mourning him as you are; saddest of all, perhaps, for those whom nobody mourns at all.

    In the last few days I happen to have been reading Robert Nichols’ poem ‘The Assault’. These lines are about the Western Front battlefield of Loos in September 1915, but I was powerfully struck by the universality of the junior officer’s experience in every theatre of the First World War:

    I hear my whistle shriek
    Between teeth set,
    I fling an arm up,
    Scramble up the grime
    Over the parapet!

    I’m up. Go on.
    Something meets us.
    Head down into the storm that greets us.
    A wail!
    Lights. Blurr.
    Gone.
    On, on. Lead. Lead. Hail.
    Spatter. Whirr. Whirr.
    ‘Toward that patch of brown,
    Direction left.’ Bullets: a stream.
    Devouring thought crying in a dream;
    Men, crumpled, going down….
    Go on. Go.

    I would be very interested to know how other Calderonians read ‘Lead. Lead.’ I originally took it as a reference to the hail of bullets, but of course ‘lead’ is also an imperative verb. Is this young poet – against his every natural instinct – urging himself to lead his men to their deaths? Robert was one of Trinity College’s ‘Class of 1913’, of whom more than a quarter fell in WW1. He was terrified by the intense bombardment that preceded Loos; but he was even more terrified at the thought of failing to play the part expected of him as an Edwardian officer.

    When I looked at the ‘The Assault’ in Nichols’ first edition, I was taken aback to realise that this word was so important to him that he gave it a diacritic: ˘. But what, then, does it mean? It is a ‘breve’ – so is this therefore the short syllable ‘led’ referring simply to bullets as I had initially assumed? But it is positioned, somewhat oddly, above the letter ‘a’ – so is it thereby extending the diphthong into an even longer, two-syllable word, in order to emphasise the impossible agony of leadership?

    We will never know George Calderon’s thoughts as he led the way out of that crumbling trench at Krithia. Following the last days of his life a year ago, I remember thinking that he didn’t seem particularly bothered about the men in his platoon. But I realise I was mistaken in this view. It was very moving to re-read your account of how, just before the attack began, he ‘picked the leaf of a certain shrub, and told the men to do the same and to chew the leaves, as these were said by the Turks to give vigour.’ That was the act of a thoughtful and intuitive individual. It was kind. And somehow, I am glad to know that, somewhere in that awful place, something green was growing.

    2016/06/05 at 8:13 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on A terrible anniversary

      Calderonian poetry-lovers all, please consider Commenting on Clare’s fascinating piece below about Robert Nichols’s poem ‘The Assault’ — for it’s only by doing that that we can weigh what might be the correct, or best reading of the contentious line! First we had a problem with modern readings of Binyon’s ‘They shall grow not old’, now it’s a question of how to pronounce ‘Lead. Lead.’ in this remarkable, cinematic poem of Nichols’s (many copies available on the Web). I know what I prefer in the year 2016, but I fear that, as with the Binyon, I am historically wrong… Not wishing to spoil anything now, I fully intend to return to the Binyon and other cruxes on Remembrance Sunday.

      Meanwhile, Clare, I must thank you again warmly for your genuinely superior understanding of the mood of my post ‘A terrible anniversary’. I was perhaps got down by the ‘eternal recurrence’ of deadly anniversaries; and by some extremely morbid reading I was having to do for an interview with a theologian who has written on eschatology. But the fact is, of course you are right to say I was ‘mourning’ George Calderon. Why can’t men see this sort of thing?! As I have written before, it seems irrational to ‘mourn’ someone you have never known and who died a hundred years ago, but yes, something in the brain does trigger the grieving response, there’s no other word for it. Another follower commented on the ‘millions’ for whom, in your words, ‘nobody mourns at all’, and I agree, but if ever there were a time in which families in Britain, at least, are reconnecting with their fallen, it is now.

      Finally, I was delighted by your remark that George’s picking leaves from a certain shrub and telling his men to do the same as it would give them vigour (courage), was ‘the act of a thoughtful and intuitive individual’. George Calderon was a very kind person in private life. One can see that from the facts that he helped care for his dying friend Archie Ripley, sat for hours cheering up the painter Charles Furse when he had a bout of consumption, regularly read to patients in the Ophthalmic Ward at St Thomas’s, and was his infirm mother-in-law’s most popular lifter and jollier-on. Kittie’s word for his charitableness was ‘tender’. She, a lifelong Christian, described George, an agnostic if not a Taoist, as a better Christian than herself. It is a pity that his public persona so often seemed smouldering, irascible and confrontational! But I agree with you about this last glimpse of George’s kindness and empathy. It is also interesting that the clear suggestion is that he chewed these leaves himself. His sang froid may have been described as ‘legendary’, but he was still utterly human: as I see it, to do this he himself must have been afraid.

      2016/06/14 at 5:08 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on Watch this Space

    Excellent advice indeed from your anonymous e.p. of English Literature – ‘It all depends on how you speak the line.’

    On Remembrance Sunday 2014 I heard a very memorable lecture on Laurence Binyon and ‘For the Fallen’, given at Trinity College by Michael Alexander, former Berry Professor of English Literature at St Andrews. Professor Alexander played a recording of Binyon himself reciting the poem (albeit some fifteen years after he wrote it) – and the good news is that we can all listen to it and decide for ourselves via Jim Clark’s ‘Poetryincarnations’ channel on youtube.

    Grow-not old? Or Grow not-old? Calderonians, please post your verdicts or email your vote to Patrick now!

    2016/04/16 at 11:36 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on Watch this Space

    Your theme of sacrifice is particularly resonant at this season of Passover and Easter, and also in the aftermath of the recent suicide bomb attack in Brussels. Thank you for a post which has provided much food for thought.

    I haven’t read Adrian Gregory’s The Last Great War: British Society and the First World War, but like you, I rather baulk at the idea of ‘redemptive sacrifice being second nature to the British population’ of a century ago. Your conclusion that ‘distance from events…makes it seem to us now that George was driven by self-sacrifice as an ideal’ is more plausible. Even so, the more I think about this, the less convinced I am. Could it be that the belief that soldiers willingly sacrificed their lives is simply one that we have inherited from the bereaved survivors of the War?

    I wonder if Kittie Calderon’s papers include the ‘dead man’s penny’ and commemorative scroll that she would have been sent as George’s next-of-kin. (See, for example, http://www.greatwar.co.uk/memorials/memorial-plaque.htm.) The illuminated text that accompanied every fallen soldier’s memorial plaque read:

    “He whom this scroll commemorates was numbered among those who, at the call of King and Country, left all that was dear to them, endured hardness, faced danger, and finally passed out of the sight of men by the path of duty and self sacrifice, giving up their own lives that others might live in freedom. Let those who come after see to it that his name be not forgotten.”

    ‘The path of duty’ was surely very clear to the British population of 1914. The letters and diaries of the fallen of George’s alma mater Trinity College are full of it. (My apologies for my Oxford-centric focus here; I hope that one college’s alumni are not too unrepresentative of the Edwardian officer-and-gentleman class as a whole.) One particularly explicit exposition of duty comes in a letter from John Harley (an archivist in civilian life) who, as it happens, was serving alongside George Calderon with the Oxford & Bucks in Gallipoli. Two days before the Third Battle of Krithia John wrote to his father:

    “You cannot think how one longs for home and the feeling of peace – I certainly have never in my life realised what it means as I do now. I am certain there is not a man here, private or officer, who would not give anything if only the war would come to an end, although of course they all realise that until Russia is crushed it is impossible…’ Then, in a postscript dated June 3: ‘…we are going up to the firing line tonight. There is something very big indeed coming – and one feels one must be prepared for anything… It may be that before you get this letter I may be killed… What the future has in store is simply in God’s hands. One just has one’s duty to do.’ [Imperial War Museum, Papers of Lieutenant John Harley, Document 17434.]

    Acceptance that doing one’s duty may lead to death is not self-sacrifice. The closest reference I know of to that comes from Trinity’s English tutor, Reginald Tiddy: “It seems to me that officers will stand a very poor chance of surviving this war, but I can’t really see how I can stay out of it, having had quite a fair amount of happy life, when these poor kids are being shot like this’. (Quoted in ‘R.J.E. Tiddy – a Memoir’, in R.J.E. Tiddy, The Mummers’ Play, (Oxford 1923).) But Reginald Tiddy was thinking about enlisting in order to spare the life of an individual, albeit a hypothetical one. I cannot think of any examples of officers voicing their intention of dying for a cause.

    That concept however is ubiquitous in tributes to the fallen, obituaries, memorial volumes, and perhaps most of all, in the letters from the parents of young men. There was great comfort in believing that a precious life had not been wasted; and the bigger the cause, the greater therefore the value of their loved one. Surely Laurence Binyon knew this instinctively as, so early in the War, he penned the line that you quote, ‘fallen in the cause of the free’. (What propaganda this is! As is, in his next stanza, the implication that death in war is intrinsically heroic: ‘they fell with their faces to the foe’.)

    The royal scroll defined each man’s death as a sacrifice, it confirmed his importance, and it demonstrated the nation’s gratitude. But I do wonder what Kittie made of it. George had indeed fallen with his face to the foe, running as hard as he could towards the Turkish lines, and he ‘passed out of the sight of men’ just as the scroll so euphemistically describes. But she never wanted him to go to War. The most compelling of the various motives you have proposed for George enlisting is that he planned to write about the experience. To this end, he instructed Kittie to preserve his letters, and, as you regularly illustrated on the blog, what brilliant letters they were. Kittie did her best to ‘see to it that his name be not forgotten’. She brought out his book about Tahiti to great acclaim –

    – but his great work on the Great War never appeared. With the safe distance of a hundred years now passed, is there not an argument to be made for concluding that George Calderon died in vain?

    2016/03/24 at 2:43 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Watch this Space

      It is more than kind of you, Clare, to pick up your Comment pen again, after such champion service all through the year of ‘Calderonia’ proper. Thank you indeed for sharing with us your highly informed thoughts at this ‘Season of Passover and Easter’. I think I broadly agree with your argument about the self-sacrifice topos. Less from me will be more. I think your Comment is a very important one in ‘Calderonia’s’ comment-history.

      We know from George’s War Office file that Kittie was very concerned to receive the correct medals for him, with correct inscriptions. But neither they, nor the ‘dead man’s penny’, nor the commemorative scroll you kindly provided the link to, have survived among her papers. The only commemorative artefact I have seen is a scroll Kittie bought produced by the Overseas Ex-Service Men’s Association testifying to George’s name being on the Helles Memorial.

      Thank you, too, for reminding us of the reasons that Jack Harley and Reginald Tiddy, alumni of the college (Trinity, Oxford) that you are Archivist of, gave for fighting. Although Harley was in the Worcestershire Regiment, there can be no doubt that he knew George Calderon, as he was attached to the 1st KOSB ‘with two other officers of the Oxford and Bucks Light Infantry’, as he put it, and he was killed in the same first wave as George on 4 June 1915. It was most moving reading his long letter to his father in the Imperial War Museum last summer (see my post of 27 July 2015).

      I think you are right: soldiers spoke of their ‘duty’, not ‘self-sacrifice’. They knew that, at the end of the day, ‘theirs was to do and die’ (as Kemal told his troops at the Anzac front on 25 April 1915). Yet they had their reasons for regarding it as their ‘duty’: I can think of plenty of causes that officers are on record as saying that they were fighting and therefore dying for, including George. The conventional wisdom among some sections of our chattering classes today that officers and men did not know what they were fighting for — that they went to fight merely because of white feathers and conscription — is ridiculously condescending and naive.

      I also agree that the concept of their self-sacrifice was overwhelmingly the stance and prerogative of the survivors, i.e. the third parties, be they families, partners, church, society or the King, who did not go off to war and were left to come to terms with its harvest. I’m indebted, as in so much connected with this project, to Johnnie Pym, a descendant of two of the Calderons’ closest friends, for drawing my attention to a book called In the Day of Battle by the Bishop of Stepney, which was published in 1915 for the comfort of the war-bereaved and went through many editions. There can be no doubt that it was very popular, and it’s highly likely that Kittie Calderon read it. The Introduction to it, by the Bishop of London, sets the subject squarely in the context of the ‘young and blameless’ fallen replicating Christ’s redeeming self-sacrifice. Yet, surely rightly, numerous writers publicly attacked this notion as heresy! (See Adrian Gregory, The Last Great War: British Society and the First World War (CUP, 2014), pp. 156-57.)

      George’s political writing of 1912 is definitely ‘millenarian’; he speaks openly of the ‘New Age’ that is coming. There is documentary evidence that this is what he hoped would emerge from the War and that this was the great ‘idea’ (in Laurence Binyon’s phrase) that George was fighting for. It has often, of course, been said that war, however tragic, can be a great driver of technological, political and social change. An example of the latter would be the post-war enfranchisement of women in Britain, which George might still not have welcomed. However, the end to Edwardian luxury, the crumbling of the class system, the redistribution of wealth and greater equality of income (see Thomas Piketty’s Capital in the Twenty-First Century), that all followed on World War One, were things that George Calderon fervently desired. In those terms, then, I don’t believe he died in vain. I believe events have vindicated him and his death.

      2016/04/05 at 11:55 am
  • From Patrick Miles on Watch this Space

    Thank you for such a kind comment — I do find it constructive!

    2016/03/09 at 7:41 pm
  • From jennyhands on Watch this Space

    This isn’t a constructive comment as such, but I thought you may like to know that at least one of your readers (surely one of many!) has much enjoyed the whole blog-biography experience, and has found the visibility of the research, discovery and writing processes to be one of the excellent parts of this. Your latest remarks on deadlines remind me of the truism “you have to have a plan to be able to change it”, i.e. a big writing project needs some kind of a plan to make it doable. Looking forward to the book … when it’s ready S:)

    2016/03/09 at 10:41 am
  • From Jim D G Miles on Watch this Space

    Very interesting post. Particularly so Heaney’s provocative line of discussion. “Over-written” is one of my favourite backhanded descriptors, but I think I agree that it was not truly valid here.

    I’m with you on the “grow not old” vs “not grow old” interpretation, and Binyon’s intention in wording it precisely the way he did.

    These are the sorts of examples I use with non-native speakers to illustrate importance of word order in English, and the subtleties of meaning they can carry.

    …but, sometimes, even native speakers fail to recognise the distinctions.

    2016/02/17 at 8:31 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

    What excellent advice, Patrick, ‘to stand back a little’ from this on-going discussion of commemoration. It is indeed difficult to maintain any sense of perspective when thinking about the horrors and losses of World War One. Thank you for your response to my latest comment, and for such an interesting summary of David Reynolds’ lecture. [See ‘Watch this Space’, 16 December 2015. PM]

    I was sorry to learn that what I said previously may have annoyed some followers of Calderonia. I should have explained more clearly that my suggested stages of the commemorative process were only ever meant to be descriptive. And my prediction that World War One will come to be remembered only as history was no more than that – just me speculating about how future generations will see the conflict. I would be very glad to consider alternative conjectures, although I really don’t believe that anyone reading this in 2015 will live long enough to see whether we are right or wrong. I hope though that we all agree that it would be daft to expect future generations to engage with World War One exactly as we do. Consider the obsession with the Napoleonic Wars of, say, the Brontë sisters, and compare that with George’s light-hearted plan to celebrate the anniversary of Waterloo. If I am honest about my own position, I’m not sure ‘I feel enough about it’ – as you yourself once said about Agincourt – to bother to commemorate it at all. In 2015 we have a very restricted view of Waterloo, obscured as it is by two global and many lesser wars, and by two centuries of social change and technological advances. Many of us alive today feel a powerful connection with 1914–18 through the experiences of our grand- and great-grandparents; but by the time our grandchildren have become grandparents themselves, they will look back across a cultural and social landscape that will have been radically transformed by the War on Terror, or by catastrophic global warming, or by [Readers, please insert your own ideas here]. And if you will forgive my flippancy, our descendants may have a fixation not with Wilfred Owen or Ivor Gurney, but with great and resonant poetry that is yet to be written. ‘The last polar bear…’ anyone?

    Perhaps others have emailed answers to your question as to whether ‘the “Great War” will achieve a supreme status in the “commemorative canon” as the exemplar of war’s “senseless” waste…’ As it happens, since posting my controversial suggestion that World War One would not achieve ‘stage five’, I have attended a lecture by Professor Anne Curry, who spoke at the Gwent Record Office about that supreme exemplar of canonisation, the Battle of Agincourt. Her expert view was that it has been remembered for purely political reasons – exhortatively rolled out by everyone from the Tudors to George Osborne. This has heartened me to stand by what I said: for why would any future national leader want to draw the attention of the electorate to negative images of the ‘senseless waste’ of a war that failed to achieve its goal – even if it was a just one?

    I found your summary of David Reynolds’ explanation of why as a nation we are not at peace with World War One very helpful indeed. Where I take issue with him though is with the implication that we need to do something to achieve closure. My instinct is that Britain just needs to wait a bit – a lot – longer and the peace he hopes for will, eventually, descend. Again, it seems useful to compare commemoration with grieving. In one of your temporary posts you questioned whether the bereaved are harmed by being forced to accept closure before they are ready. Most people would agree that they are (pace George and his robust treatment of Kittie after Archie’s death. Here’s a new train of thought – did that interference make it harder for her to cope when she was widowed for the second time?) Where was I? Ah yes. Perhaps it is the very definition of closure that has caused the problem: immediately the achievement of it becomes pass/fail. It might be more helpful to see grieving as an open-ended and life-long process; this would for instance reduce social pressure on the families of murdered children to ‘move on’. Most but not all of us do manage to arrive at ‘acceptance’ of bereavement, but only after working through numerous stages – anger, denial, depression, bargaining, whatever – in our own time and order. Similarly, why should Britain compare itself with France or Germany as we collectively, and over many generations, come to terms with World War One?

    Let’s hear it for historians! The Agincourt we feel we know is very different from the actual battle that Anne Curry reconstructed for her audience. I was to say the least startled by your remark that you ‘fear the historicisation of the Great War like the devil’! Given a choice between a patriotically sentimental view of World War One and a rigorous understanding of its causes and course, is not the latter better? But perhaps here too we should see the shift from memory to history as something fluid and on-going, with over-lapping stages which cannot be rushed and which will last for generations. On 3 July you said that the ‘process [of that commemorative staple, empathy] should be towards understanding’. And surely it is historians who with their impartial research and objective analysis can lead Britain towards that understanding – even if it does require us to ‘clamber out of the trenches and escape from poet’s corner’…

    As I reflect further on ‘my’ stages of commemoration, it strikes me how long each one takes to run its course. Examples of present-day honouring and memorialising of World War One abound, while the flow of new histories shows no sign of abating. Here at Trinity College – George Calderon’s alma mater – we are actively remembering our fallen members, German as well as British, in a monthly display of their names alongside the earliest surviving manuscript of Laurence Binyon’s poem, ‘For the Fallen’. In April this year we unveiled a new memorial – to the College’s five fallen German and Austro-Hungarian members – in a very moving ceremony attended by the Austrian ambassador and the German chargé d’affaires. The impact of World War One on this small Oxford College was huge, and its effects are still being felt. The equivalent of more than three years’ intake of undergraduates was wiped out, while the 20th Century saw a surge of benefactions from their parents and others who found comfort in supporting an institution where the young men never did grow old, as they who were left grew old… At the risk of undermining my own argument, I have to confess that if ‘canonisation’ of World War One is going to happen anywhere, I think it will probably be here! I wonder what George Calderon would have made of that?

    And as for our debate on this engrossing subject – will it really all be over by Christmas? Seasons Greetings, one and all!

    2015/12/18 at 11:13 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

    Thank you for replying so comprehensively to my remarks about Commemoration. Just as psychologists have identified several distinct phases that people go through when a loved one dies, so I have come to think that there is a series of stages in the process of commemoration. The first is the ‘untrammelled empathy’ and the ‘subjective, holistic-empathic response’ that you describe. This happens at a personal level and we could call it Mourning; for many individuals it can last a lifetime. In this category are those elderly veterans of the Battle of Britain and D-Day who so moved the nation as they recalled their fallen comrades on our TV screens earlier this year. It seems to me that this is where you are with regard to George. As his biographer you have known him intimately; ‘alive’, he was a constant presence in your life, and now, very understandably, you are experiencing some of the emotions of the bereaved. I wonder if this is why you feel unable to stand in a crowd at Krithia – you would almost certainly be the only person there feeling that way.

    Stage two of the commemorative process you have also identified: the ‘ceremony, ritual, more impersonal, rational and objective forms’ of cherishing the dead. This echoes the funerary rites that follow the death of any loved one. Done well, this stage is comforting because it provides reassurance that the deceased have value and deserve to be remembered. Let us call it Honouring. Examples of this stage include the crowds that lined the streets of Wootton Basset to greet the flag-draped coffins of soldiers killed in Afghanistan, the enumeration of names at Ground Zero on the anniversary of 9/11, and all local Armistice Day ceremonies. The emotions of Honouring encompass respect, reminiscence, and regret.

    Stage three is a time of Memorialising – the creation or construction of something permanent that will outlast individual memory. After the funeral comes the gravestone, tree, or charity fund. Kittie Calderon threw herself into the production of books by, and about, George. The cover of Percy Lubbock’s A Sketch from Memory, you told us, is embossed in ‘real gold’, and certainly the motif still shines brightly on the copy in the Trinity College Library. I understand your distrust of the ‘imperial architecture’ of Great War cemeteries and memorials, and I sympathise with your objection to the ‘gigantism and marmoreal impersonality that made World War I possible’. On the other hand, the British Government had a choice. They could have followed the model of all previous European wars, dumping the bodies of private soldiers into anonymous pits, potentially to be used as fertiliser. After the Napoleonic and Crimean Wars, only officers could expect proper graves and inscriptions. But the insistence of the Imperial War Graves Commission (now the CWGC) that all ranks would be treated with equal respect and given identical memorials has always seemed to me a truly Great aspect of the War. This is the stage of commemoration when a soldier’s death is given meaning, and the emotions evolve into patriotic pride and gratitude. We appreciate what war memorials represent; we know that the fallen did their duty and gave their lives in the service of their country.

    Stage four is when commemoration distils into History. Sooner or later memory and oral tradition fade away, to be replaced by facts known only from books or documentaries. You have identified this stage too, in the ‘educational’ visit to Auschwitz. The search for meaning in the deaths of the fallen is replaced by a thirst for knowledge of why and how wars happened. World War One seems easy to empathise with now, but it will all too soon slide away from future generations. As is already happening in Germany, the two World Wars seem destined to merge into a single historical event – with a short, failed peace in the middle, and outcomes that include the UN and the EU.

    So where do art, music and literature fit into all of this? Artists and writers engage with every stage of commemoration. With regard to World War One, we might say that poets wrote to express their grief; ‘I vow to thee my country’ was composed to honour the fallen; Stanley Spencer created a lasting memorial to all combatants; while Sebastian Faulks’s Birdsong has lifted the work of tunnellers from complete obscurity to an esteemed place in history.

    There is a fifth stage in the commemoration process, and I am tempted to call it Canonisation. I was fortunate last week to attend the ‘national homage’ to the Battle of Agincourt, celebrated at Westminster Abbey by an impressive array of establishment figures: the Duke of Kent, the Bishop of London, the Lord Mayors of London and Westminster, plus actors, academics, and aldermen. The choir and the organ music were magnificent, and the tomb of Henry V was revered. But what was the point of it all? How did one unexpected victory become the only battle of the Hundred Years War to be singled out for commemoration? We could argue that Agincourt is remembered solely because of Shakespeare’s rendition of it; certainly the programme would have been rather thin without those stirring scenes from Henry V. But it is more than that. Somewhere, somehow, consciously or subconsciously, Agincourt has come to exemplify important qualities in the English (or British) character – and its commemoration therefore serves to define and reinforce our national identity. Agincourt evokes admiration of an inspirational leader and identification with the plucky underdog – ‘we few, we happy few’. The Battle of Britain – ‘never was so much owed by so many, to so few’ – does exactly the same, and in the fullness of time it will surely achieve similar status in the commemorative canon of our staunch little island. But what part, if any, of World War One will make the cut? Its four grinding years are resonant with uneasy alliances, false starts, inconsistent leadership, frightful inventions, and terrible, terrible waste… I rather suspect, none of it.

    2015/11/02 at 5:18 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

      I received several short email responses to Clare’s Comment of 2 November, and am therefore disappointed that no-one has actually posted a reply. I can only think this is because (a) people do broadly accept what Clare says, (b) therefore (or anyway) they don’t feel they have anything more to say about Commemoration.

      It will not surprise you to learn, Clare, that the part of your Comment most vehemently disagreed with in emails and conversation with me was the last two sentences. Evidently, suspecting that ‘none of’ the ‘four grinding years’ of ‘uneasy alliances, false starts, inconsistent leadership, frightful inventions, and terrible, terrible waste’ would ‘make the cut in the commemorative canon of our staunch little island’ came too close for some people to saying that our sacrifice achieved nothing and we should never have joined the war. Most people do not now believe this. But your suspicion surely rightly reflects the unique difficulty of, as Reynolds put it yesterday, making our peace with WW1 and moving on. Is it perhaps possible that the ‘Great War’ will achieve a supreme status in the ‘commemorative canon’ as the exemplar of war’s ‘senseless’ waste even when that war was a just one?

      Personally, I find your Comment a superb rationalisation of the whole subject. Thank you for taking so much trouble over it and expressing it so well. It would not surprise me if it is the last word about it on ‘Calderonia’, or at least if there were now a long pause. It certainly is a last word for me. I do broadly accept the process as you have brilliantly mapped it out and described it. I’m particularly grateful to you for suggesting that where I was with George at the time was in fact ‘mourning’ and ‘bereavement’…it seems perhaps fanciful with someone who is, as it were, merely a biographical creation, but I think you were right! I hope you will also be gratified to see how much your historical take on the issues overlaps with Reynolds’s.

      One brief question after Reynolds’s lecture was: ‘Do you think that…well…just forgetting will bring us peace with the War?’ No, Reynolds replied, that’s not the answer — and you would presumably agree, Clare — what is needed is understanding. And I think that’s a very important point, because some people might take stage four in your commemorative process to mean simply ‘historicisation’, which they equate with draining the blood from, cerebralising and atrophying, i.e. something verging on forgetting.

      Those of us who are not, and can never become, historians, fear the historicisation of the Great War like the devil. I do think the process of commemoration as you have traced it is very plausible, indeed probably right, but as someone who cannot think in purely historical terms I do not want the poets or the truth of WW1 to ‘lie down’. Indeed, I don’t think they can. A recent German President said that for the German nation there could be ‘no moral closure on the two world wars’. That does not apply to us because we did not cause those wars, but how as a nation will we ever get emotional closure as long as the poetry of Owen, say, Ivor Gurney, or Georg Trakl exists? Or the narratives of Graves, say, Brittain, or Erich Maria Remarque? Political and military events are ‘past’ in a way that art never is.

      Attempting to stand back a little from what I have just written, I think I discern that my stance on the subject is as ‘nuanced’, meaning ambivalent, conflicted, paradoxical, as Reynolds’s was, and perhaps yours is too, Clare. We want closure and we don’t want closure. I hope you will not think me flippant if I conclude with Mrs Boffin’s words in Our Mutual Friend (Bk 2, Ch. 10): ‘It is, as Mr Rokesmith says, a matter of feeling, but Lor how many matters are a matter of feeling!’

      2015/12/03 at 2:12 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

    I expected to feel sad when this blog ended. But now the last day has come and I find the feeling is more akin to finishing a book that was so absorbing I wanted never to get to the final page. As with the closing of such a book, I am left with a sense of satisfaction and understanding, and pleasure that I have the option to read it again, and at a different speed.

    Thank you for the tremendous amount of work you have put into this project. Calderonia has been unfailingly interesting and extraordinarily stimulating. It has also been at times painful, frustrating, and exhilarating. George has been regularly infuriating and Kittie, occasionally, exasperating. Other modifiers come to mind with regard to the Gallipoli campaign, and to the mores of our Edwardian forebears. In short, it has been a wonderful privilege to have had this unrestricted entree into the lives of such a remarkable couple at such a momentous time.

    A year ago, all I knew about George Calderon was that he was the oldest graduate of Trinity College to fall in action in World War One. That tag gave him a tragic aura which resonated poignantly with many college members. Now I am aware of his tremendous energy and the richness of his life – indeed, his genius – and a more genuine and nuanced feeling of sadness comes from a deeper appreciation of his sacrifice. As you regularly remind us, ‘empathy has to be intelligent, critical….’ And now it can be.

    I am sure I am not alone in feeling especially sad for Kittie in her long and dwindling widowhood. Thank you for finishing with this beautiful expression of George’s love for her. Are these words written in his hand on the back of her childhood photograph? Could we see that too?

    There is a type of memorabilia that is regularly to be found amidst the remembrance of World War One: the sudden and apparently random token, or the small and inconsequential fact that combines with one’s awareness of a fallen soldier’s fate to evoke an unexpected surge of intense emotion. The response might be triggered by a line in a letter or an article retrieved from a dead man’s pocket; in the case of Jim Corbet it was the knowledge that his sister already had her frock for his wedding. It is such little details that, if we are susceptible, are most likely to make us cry. Books and documentaries that use killer storms and natural disasters for the purpose of entertainment are sometimes categorised as ‘weather porn’ and ‘disaster porn’; and following from these, I have come to think of this genre of commemorative material as ‘war porn’. To be moved by something so intrinsically unimportant can feel like falling victim to a cheap and manipulative trick. The empathy engendered is powerful, sometimes pleasurable, and, I suspect, addictive. It is not however intelligent or critical…

    Choosing to conclude your blog with this tourbillionesque glimpse into George and Kittie’s courtship could almost be an experiment in war porn! But no… This is a photograph that Kittie chose to keep with her in old age, unlike much of her correspondence that she destroyed. As such, it suggests a tentative answer to your final question. Was Kittie really in denial that George was dead? Did she refuse ever to acknowledge the accounts of the Third Battle of Krithia that were provided by eye-witnesses? With our modern day enthusiasm for ‘closure’, we might wish her to accept that George had gone; or, more positively, to recognise that the grief she suffered was in direct proportion to the love that they had shared. In other words, we want her to be strong, realistic, sensible. But maybe there is another scenario. When Kittie told her goddaughter Lesbia that she ‘expected [George] to walk through the door one day’, was she just sharing a comforting fantasy, an exercise in imagination and memory that sustained her for 35 years without him at her side?

    2015/07/30 at 10:22 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

      Your stamina as a Commenter, Clare, is astounding — and as ever I am highly appreciative. Thank you particularly for what you say about ‘Calderonia’ resembling a book, which you have ‘the option to read again, and at a different speed’. This is an extremely gratifying and unexpected development in a ‘mere blog’ (as I started by regarding it). I know that several stalwarts are re-reading it, and I must say the daily numbers of presumably new viewers of the ‘website’ are surprising. You must take the credit for regularly kicking the Comment ball into play from the beginning, and you will always be welcome to leave Comments in future, e.g. about why you found George ‘regularly infuriating’ and even Kittie ‘occasionally exasperating’!

      I was hoping that the concept of ‘war porn’ that you have coined in this latest would attract a shower of Comments, but perhaps there are still too many taboos surrounding commemoration of WW1 even to air this subject? Personally, though, I find the concept of ‘war porn’, as you have defined and discussed it, perfectly legitimate and useful. Many of us feel that as a nation we are walking a knife edge these days between empathy and sentiment in our commemoration of historical events, especially WW1. If the kind of memorabilia or facts you refer to are provided in order to tick the box ‘Make people cry’, then of course this is manipulative. ‘Porn’ is certainly applicable to this kind of exploitation. We need to be empathetic to real events of the past, we must be empathetic, but our empathy needs to be at the service of our understanding, i.e. philosophically ‘heuristic’. I fear we are losing the ability/training/desire to focus the ‘unexpected surge of intense emotion’ on the intrinsic significance of what we see, and I think we need to learn to do this or we WILL be manipulated… I’m not against these highly emotional tokens or biographical features, then, even when they are blatantly manipulative, because it must come down to how, rationally, we ourselves respond to them. On the other hand, there are some that are so powerful I don’t know what to say. For example, a mere photograph of a bin of tumbled stripped shoes of the murdered at Auschwitz leaves me incoherent — so much so that I know I could never visit the place itself. Could such an image ever become ‘manipulative’?

      Naturally, I am very glad that you don’t find my concluding image on 30 July an ‘experiment in war porn’! If I attempt to be objective towards myself, I must admit that my use of the image plus quotation from George’s letter is manipulative in the sense that I wanted to leave followers with a juxtaposition of image and words that might be emotionally powerful. But, of course, the context I intended was not that of the War, or even ‘Calderonia’, but the lives of these two people as a whole, outside 1914-15. I also wanted to reassert the focus on both George and Kittie, after George was killed on 4 June and the rest of the blog was largely about Kittie the survivor. No, George’s words are not written on the back of the photograph of Kittie aged eighteen, they are taken from his letter to her of January 1899 (she had been going on about her grey hair and how much older she was than George, etc). But I would put my money on ‘the miniature’ that George refers to being this particular photograph.

      As for your final questions, e.g. ‘Was Kittie really in denial that George was dead?’, they are very perceptive as always, but I am going to leave them rhetorical… As it happens, my reading of post-blog documents in the past week has revealed that in 1919 she was capable of telling the War Office one month that she accepted George was dead, and telling them the next month still to consider him a prisoner.

      2015/08/06 at 4:16 pm
      • From Clare Hopkins on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

        Can there ever be a last word on the subject of commemoration? We are fortunate that we can choose whether to visit Auschwitz or not; but if we do, I see nothing wrong in being incoherent. Like the Helles Memorial, it is a truly aweful (sic) place – how can we find the thoughts let alone the words to express what we feel? To go to the specific site where so many – or where one particular individual – died can be akin to a pilgrimage: a positive demonstration that we care; a declaration of intent to remember them; a willingness to be humbled by the experience. To stand in numb or anguished silence seems an entirely appropriate act of commemoration. Perhaps that is why, almost a century after the guns ceased firing on the Western Front, the Two Minutes Silence remains so potent on Remembrance Day.

        I have hesitated whether to take the bait and answer your question to me… But go on then, why did I find George Calderon so ‘regularly infuriating’? This answer is from memory – my impressions formed from a daily read of Calderonia – and I apologise in advance if I am vague and/or inaccurate.

        I found George’s whole attitude to the War rather arrogant. He seemed to think that because he wanted to be an army officer, he therefore had the right to be one; as if the selection criteria just did not apply to him. What happened in Flanders suggests that the military authorities were in fact right. As a man in his mid-40s George probably was too old to cope with the strenuous demands of the front line. He had health problems caused – the doctor suggested – by being too long in the saddle. Whatever the underlying medical issues, age surely affected his ability to recover from the unaccustomed hours of riding. A man with greater humility might have revised his plans. I can’t recall any occasion when George took another person’s advice.

        Secondly, I found George selfish. Not because he ignored Kittie’s pleas to stay at home – that was a matter between the two of them and his conscience/sense of duty. But one example of his selfishness with regard to Kittie was that he did not let her set up house for him when he was at officer training camp. He wanted the full experience of an officer’s life for himself – but he denied her the full experience of an officer’s wife. And then – good grief – he wrote home about the pleasure of visiting the other officers’ wives who were there!

        I can’t think of any behaviour on George’s part that I could describe as unselfish. (His final act of self-sacrifice, obviously, is in a different league.) George’s whole interaction with the War was about himself. I have read letters home from various other junior officers, and quite a few tributes to the fallen, and one common feature is how deeply most lieutenants cared about ‘their’ men: learning their names, taking time to show an interest in their lives, valuing their skills and qualities. George’s letters were much more about himself, his experiences, his surroundings. I know he was only with the KOSB for an extremely short time, but comments in his letters suggest that he saw his men not as individuals but as types. I recall that once he got something or other for his platoon, but the story read as his own triumph over the army system. On another occasion he wrote about censoring soldiers’ letters – but almost as if the men he led were comic characters in a play, not real people with whom he could have engaged on a personal level.

        And finally I was shocked and, I have to admit, disappointed, when I learned that George campaigned so aggressively against female suffrage.

        Readers, no doubt you are thinking how harsh, judgemental, and opinionated I am. My sincere apologies if I have offended you by this attempt to describe one aspect of my personal response to a year of George Calderon’s life. I am fully aware that I have subjected an Edwardian character to 21st-century scrutiny. This may be unfair, but on the other hand it is exactly what Patrick has invited us to do by laying out George and Kittie’s daily lives as he has. I could equally say how fond I became of George, and how much I liked and admired many other facets of his character – his sense of humour, his determination, his enthusiasm, his copious letter writing, his feistiness, his carpe diem attitude, his Christmas dinner invitation to his mother-in-law, the way he took responsibility for his own actions, his interest in knitting. At times I wondered if beneath the veneer of Edwardian manners he could actually be quite nasty – and I found that endearingly human. He was a complex man, and enormously courageous. As his college friend Laurence Binyon said,

        He went to the very end;
        He counted not the cost;
        What he believed, he did.

        And now it’s my turn to ask a question. Back on 4 June, Patrick, you said that George got as far as he did towards the Turkish trench because of ‘his very superior running skills’. This phrase has lodged uneasily in my mind ever since. Another member of Trinity College who has been commemorated in the past year is the Olympic athlete Gerard “Twiggy” Anderson who fell, sword in hand, leading a bayonet charge near Hooge on 9 November 1914. He was 25. Four years earlier Twiggy had set a World Record for the 400 yards hurdles that was not broken for 16 years. Superior running skills (like swords) are no defence against bullets. But George was 46, his working life was largely sedentary, he had only recently recovered from a wound which had reduced his mobility for some time, and following that he had been laid low by flu. His wife believed he was unwell; you have hinted that you suspect he was seriously ill. Did Percy Lubbock tell you that George had superior running skills? Is this detail, in fact, part of a myth?

        2015/08/14 at 9:21 am
        • From Patrick Miles on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

          Fortunate indeed is any writer who has a Socratic ‘gadfly’ that can provoke him/her into looking at his/her subject from an entirely different angle – into re-viewing it. He/she probably won’t think they are fortunate (like horses, they may actually feel driven mad by it!), but they are. For when you have been working on a book for a few years you have almost certainly developed a form of tunnel vision and the best thing that can happen to you is to be brought out of that tunnel.

          As I have before, then, I thank Clare Hopkins, Archivist of Trinity College, Oxford, where George Calderon was an undergraduate, from the bottom of my heart for taking time to present such a rigorously argued ‘anti-view’ of George in her latest Comment. It has made me think, it has made me swivel my head owl-like to see things from a diametrically opposed viewpoint, and that’s undoubtedly good for me. Clare posted her Comment on 14 August, so it’s high time I responded.

          I must confess that I hadn’t thought of it, but Clare is right: George’s attitude to the War can look arrogant, and he did seem to think that ‘because he wanted to be an army officer, he therefore had the right to be one; as if the selection criteria did not apply to him’. That is irrefutably evidenced by Percy Lubbock’s remark in his Obituary of George (The Times, 5 May 1919) that ‘even before the declaration of war’ George ‘genially and resolutely insisted’ on being given a commission. As Clare says, he thought he had a right to one.

          But this is a prime example of where one must understand the times in which a biographical subject lived. In Edwardian terms, George did have a right to a commission! Even I (I freely admit) have occasionally overlooked the visceral acceptance of ‘class’ in Edwardian society. To be an officer, you had to be a gent. There were, of course, some people who rose from the ranks, but I have read in numerous places that they were pretty rare. If you were a gent, you automatically qualified to train to be an officer; if you weren’t a gent, the highest rank you were likely to attain was sergeant-major. So as a Rugbeian, Oxfordian, qualified barrister and property-owner, George Calderon could ‘insist’ on being given a commission – especially as he had served a decent term in the Artists’ Corps and Inns of Court Volunteers.

          Yet if one must always strive to understand one’s man in the context of his times (this applies pre-eminently to George’s views on suffragettes), Clare is absolutely right that ‘by laying out George and Kittie’s daily lives’ as I did in my blog I have ‘invited’ readers to ‘subject an Edwardian character to 21st-century scrutiny’. Again, thank you for saying that, Clare, and for expressing it so clearly. Because this, surely, is the other thing biographies are ‘about’. We read them to understand a person and his/her times, but also, perhaps above all, to interact with them, question them, dialogize with them, comment on them, argue with them, and, naturally, judge them – and all that from our own point of view in time. There is nothing ‘harsh, judgemental, and opinionated’, therefore, about Clare’s view of George, because if a biography doesn’t provoke its readers it hasn’t lived.

          Yes, ‘as a man in his mid-40s George probably was too old to cope with the strenuous demands of the front line’. I think that by the time he reached Gallipoli he was chronically exhausted. But we know why he sacrificed himself in this way (as Clare acknowledges)… Or do we? Clare’s hilarious observation ‘I can’t recall any occasion when George took another person’s advice’ is correct, so is her charge that George was ‘selfish’. But that is what writers are like. The whole of the rest of the world will dissuade you from being a writer if you let it. I am deeply convinced that George was impelled to the war fronts because he would write about his experiences there, and no-one was going to stop him. Half-consciously perhaps, it was a project rather like his trip to Tahiti, and if he had survived I think there is every chance his war book would have been as good.

          So writers are selfish…about their writing, because that’s what they ‘do’.

          If, again, we look at his treatment of Kittie from a 2015 point of view, as Clare has so rightly and sanely invited us to do, one example of George’s selfishness would be that he ‘denied her the full experience of an officer’s wife’ by not letting her set up house for him in Brockhurst like other officers’ wives. And, I agree, from where we live it seems outrageous that he then ‘wrote home about the pleasure of visiting the other officers’ wives who were there!’. There is no real evidence, however, that Kittie wanted to set up a home in Brockhurst (and be separated from Nina Corbet). On the contrary, where George’s six-month trip to the South Seas was concerned, Kittie felt he should go on his own because, as she put it in her memoirs, ‘a man can’t have completeness of adventure if he has got a woman with him’ – another Edwardian attitude we have to accept.

          Since we ‘de-appled’ George’s letter of 10 May 1915 and discovered one woman (another officer’s wife?) was accusing him of being in love with another woman at Brockhurst, Helen Peel, it has emerged that both Kittie and George may have known the Peels already through their extensive Oxford contacts. A ‘Mrs Peel’ also features in Kittie’s address book, so perhaps they corresponded after George’s death. And, unpopular though this statement will certainly be, many writers on relationships have pointed out that ‘emotional infidelity’ is not ‘infidelity’.

          Altogether, then, I do accept that in a sense George’s ‘whole interaction with the War was about himself’, as Clare puts it, because as well as the determination to defend his country and its values, he was driven to war by his desire for writerly adventure/experience, which is a profoundly individualistic (‘selfish’) desire. This explains why, indeed, his ‘letters were much more about himself, his experiences, his surroundings’, than his ‘men’. The letters were literally records of his experience that Kittie was to keep safe for when he came to write the book, as she had his letters, diaries and sketchbooks sent home in 1906 from Tahiti. This is why, as well as action, dialogue, humour and invective, they contain long literary descriptive paragraphs that to many have seemed out of place in ‘war letters’.

          I agree that as a lieutenant he does not seem to have got close to or cared deeply about ‘his’ men. I think there are two factual explanations for this. First, as an interpreter with the ‘Blues’ he was attached to the top officers only – and there are plenty of descriptions of and anecdotes about those in his letters. But when he returned from Dunkirk and was sidelined by the Blues’ staff, he began ‘soldiering’ with privates and NCOs from the Royal Warwickshires as though he were one of their lieutenants, and Kittie wrote afterwards that he ‘really loved those men’. Unfortunately, of course, when he was made one of their officers and went into action with them, he was promptly wounded. Similarly, he couldn’t get to know his men well at Krithia because (a) there wasn’t time, (b) Sergeant Smith had been their effective leader until George arrived and Smith had been with them since the first landings, so the men still referred to it as ‘Sergeant Smith’s Platoon’.

          I responded to Clare’s last question, regarding George’s ‘very superior running skills’, in a brief post on 16 August which I have since deleted for economy, so I will just summarise my position now. Yes, I think I overstated these ‘skills’. I accept that George, at 46, was no longer the fast sprinter he had been, especially after his leg wound at Ypres and considering his generally sapped condition. There is plenty of independent evidence that he had been a fast runner, though, and he himself claimed that he had run ‘like a hare’ and ‘at my best hundred-yard speed’ at Ypres. We now know that after the massacre of A Company on 4 June there was a slackening in the Turkish fire power. As Clare writes, ‘superior running skills (like swords) are no defence against bullets’. But a mathematician assures me that combined with the decrease in number of bullets, speed of running would be a factor in George and others in B Company getting about a hundred yards before they were either mown down or took cover in what is believed to have been a shallow ‘nullah’.

          Again, my gratitude to Clare for her genuinely critical and unfailingly fruitful Comments all through the life of the blog knows no bounds. By common contemporary consent, George was a very complex man, and Clare has teased out some of the complexity that I missed!

          2015/10/03 at 4:25 pm
          • From Patrick Miles on 30 July 1915: 'Ends'

            It was remiss of me, in my last Comment, not to address the first paragraph of Clare Hopkins’s last Comment, which concerned commemoration. Clare began the paragraph by asking ‘Can there ever be a last word on the subject of commemoration?’ As new followers of the blog may ascertain by searching on ‘Commemoration’, we debated this subject over the year, with reference to World War I, a great deal.

            I think it possible, therefore, that I subconsciously answered ‘no, there can’t be a last word on commemoration’, and moved on to address the questions that I have in my previous Comment to this one. Equally, back in August I was feeling ‘warred out’ and ‘commemorationed out’ and simply had nothing more to say. That situation has been changed by a visit that I made last weekend to the Sandham Memorial Chapel at Burghclere in Hampshire, which was conceived and painted by Stanley Spencer.

            In my own Comment of 6 August I said that the images and all that I know of Auschwitz and the Holocaust constrain me from visiting Auschwitz. I would be incoherent with emotion. The same is true for me of the Helles Memorial at Gallipoli or visiting the battlefield itself (to go to the spot where George Calderon was killed would be totally impossible). But Clare reasonably remarked that she saw ‘nothing wrong in being incoherent’ and that ‘to stand in numb or anguished silence’ at Helles or in Auschwitz ‘seems an entirely appropriate act of commemoration’.

            Although I still know I couldn’t go to these places, I accept Clare’s view here. I have come to feel since August that the completely empathic response to such terrible events and individual sacrifice is ‘not enough’, in the sense that it’s only half of the act of commemoration. I’ve come round to this because of my personal experience that the subjective, holistic-empathic response reaches a limit where you have no more to give. Indeed you are exhausted, ‘gutted’ by it. Ceremony, ritual, more impersonal, rational and objective forms of commemoration, have to take over.

            Another difficulty I have always had with memorials like Helles, Thiepval, or the daily ceremony at the Menin Gate, is their sheer scale. Certainly they create an awe-ful sense, but their size and architecture also seem uncomfortably ‘imperial’ — partaking even of the very gigantism and marmoreal impersonality that made World War I possible. Many people have said to me that the scale of and the silence at these memorials are what has made the deepest impression on them. I can’t help feeling, though, that I wouldn’t be able to get that experience from them myself with so many hundreds of other people present. There is an undeniable element of tourism at these memorials, even Auschwitz, which I have no ‘difficulty’ with but which I wouldn’t be able to stomach.

            The reason I have no ‘difficulty’ with this commemorative tourism, or even with what Clare Hopkins aptly termed in her Comment of 30 July ‘war porn’, is that it surely does not matter how people are brought to a realisation of the horror of these events and, dare I say it, the sanctity of the victims, as long as they are brought to it. Of course the simply ‘educational’ value of a visit to such places is gold. And, as I say, the monument, war grave, ceremony, service or ritual seem to complete (close?) somewhat unemotionally an act that untrammeled empathy cannot.

            But I have to say that Spencer’s nineteen frescoes in the Sandham Memorial Chapel are the most satisfying commemoration of World War I that I know. There are no corpses, gunfire, attacks and carnage in them, very few discernible weapons even, but the horror of 1914-18 warfare is the great Unspoken at the back of your mind as you study them. What the panels draw you into (and you could spend days discovering new things in them) is the most basic human life of the war, from scrubbing floors in hospitals, sorting the laundry, setting out kit for inspection, to scraping dead skin off frostbitten feet, buttering sandwiches in a hospital ward, map-reading or making a military road. All of the scenes are collective ones. As the excellent National Trust brochure puts it, they celebrate the ‘human companionship of war’. The sheer positiveness of this companionship — the fundamental humanity of the paintings — triumphs.

            At the same time, Spencer’s personal and wonderfully modern christianity (the small letter seems appropriate) shines through everything, especially the vast altarpiece ‘Resurrection of the Soldiers’. In the centre of it are two mules waking from death and craning their necks round to look at the almost unnoticeable white figure of Christ in the mid-distance, to whom the resurrected soldiers are bringing their crosses. Apparently, Spencer believed that animals have souls and that is why he wasn’t invited to the consecration of the chapel by an Anglican bishop. It also explains why a soldier waking far right from his grave is touching two hilarious tortoises (the scene recalls Spencer’s war service in Greece and Macedonia), who presumably have also been resurrected.

            It will take me ages, I think, to get my head round Spencer’s masterpiece (surely it is one of the greatest works of art of the twentieth century), but at the moment I would say that the reason I find it such a satisfying commemoration is that its celebration of common life, its astounding evocation of ‘ordinary’ men and women, is empathetically totally engaging, whilst his personal religious conception of the work provides ‘meaning’, a tentative, almost indefinable rational closure to the empathic. Spencer wrote of the altarpiece: ‘The truth that the cross is supposed to symbolise in this picture is that nothing is lost where a sacrifice has been the result of a perfect understanding.’ Not an exclusively Christian, or religious, truth, then; all can accept it as a moral and humanistic one.

            2015/11/01 at 10:28 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on Flashback -- and tourbillions in Time (again)

    I have no doubt you are right that we think of time circularly because the rotations of our planet give us both the waking/sleeping rhythm of the day, and the seasonal pattern of the year. Like all living organisms we run on a 24 hour cycle. Religions have always provided an annual round of ceremonial rituals, whether linked to the movements of the stars (Stonehenge) or the fluctuations of distant rainfall (the Ancient Egyptians and the River Nile). The Jewish/Christian calendar nicely combines its major festivals with key agricultural tasks. And even before the sophistication of counting days, individual memory surely linked certain events with particular points in the cycle: a baby born at berry-picking-time or a tragic death at a midsummer vigil.

    But our society’s obsession with the marking of national anniversaries feels like something else. We are all pawns in this game. There has been a rich diet of commemoration on our TV screens and in our newspapers in the past few months, ranging in time from the 7/7 bombings of ten years ago to the Battle of Waterloo, since when two centuries have passed. We have also been exposed to extensive coverage of the Battle of Britain – 75 years – while coming up in the autumn will be the sexcentenary of Agincourt. I suspect that, apart from those directly affected by terrorist attacks, few of us would have given much thought to these events if they had not been brought to our attention by reporters and journalists. On the other hand, editors are presumably providing fodder that they know their readers and viewers will appreciate.

    The coverage is broadly the same: facts, dates, statistics, and stories of individuals’ experiences. But our empathetic response to each is rather different. In a previous post you wrote about the ‘catch of emotion’ engendered by the process of commemoration. That catch seems particularly exquisite when we reflect on the events of ‘exactly 100 years ago’. Let us consider the poppies at the Tower, or the innumerable WW1 forums run by military enthusiasts – or even, just now, our feelings as we lingered over these new and harrowing details of the Third Battle of Krithia, and recognised the immense courage that George Calderon must have shown in the final moments of his life. Britain it seems cannot get enough of World War One… I would like to suggest that this is an example of the Goldilocks Principle at work.

    It is right that we remember and reflect on the horrors of 7 July 2005, but the victims’ stories are shocking; the injuries are all too obviously life-changing; the grief is raw; and it is frightening to remember the unfolding of that day, because it may well happen again. We experience great empathy, but it is painful. The anniversary of 7/7 is Too Recent. Re-enactments of Waterloo on the other hand may be extremely interesting and important for our understanding of European history, but the commemoration is emotionally dry and we find it hard to connect with soldiers who lived and fought in that pre-combustion engine world. The Napoleonic Wars are (were?) Too Long Ago.

    The battles of World War One however belong to the generation of our grand- and great-grandparents. We do not have to look in the eyes of the maimed and traumatized soldiers who returned, and nor do we meet with the widows and mothers of those who fell. But we know a great many intimate details of their lives. The world they inhabited was (is!) not so very different from ours. Only a little imagination is needed to put ourselves in George and Kittie’s shoes. Postmen still deliver letters; news organisations pump daily updates and propaganda directly into our homes; machine guns remain standard weapons of war. Intense empathy is easy; and, if we are honest with ourselves, the personal-but-not-too-personal relationship that we have with World War One even makes that empathy an enjoyable sensation. Exactly 100 years ago, then, is Just Right.

    It will not always be so. If we roll forwards to 2115, the grim attrition of trench warfare will probably seem as distant and strange to our descendants as the cavalry manoeuvres of 1815 are to us. And perhaps the term ‘9/11’ will have replaced ‘the First Day of the Somme’ as that terrible historical event that needs no explanation…

    Well, I’m not sure what to conclude from these musings. Except that this year is surely Just The Right Time to publish a life of George Calderon!

    2015/07/20 at 1:25 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Flashback -- and tourbillions in Time (again)

      Dear Clare, I feel this is in more senses than one the ‘last word’ on this subject…and with your permission I would like to put a link in from my post about Commemoration (3 July) to your superb Comment here, when the blog becomes a website after 31 July. I feel that future visitors will appreciate accessing the two takes on the subject together. You have, I know, been very involved in the commemoration of Trinity College’s fallen in the first year of the Great War, including George; you have greater experience of this subject, probably, than any other of us ‘Calderonians’; and you have manifestly thought both broadly and deeply about it.

      I agree with you in feeling uncomfortable about our society’s ‘obsession with the marking of national anniversaries’. We seem to be more exposed to this activity than ever. Of course, one could say we can choose whether to become pawns in it, or not, and one could question whether the media are creating the demand or satisfying what is a genuine one on the part of their readers and viewers. But your suggestion that ‘intense empathy is easy’ and that in the case of WW1 such empathy can become ‘an enjoyable sensation’ has a disturbing resonance of truth. That is why as far as I am concerned empathy has to be intelligent, critical; the ‘limits of empathy have to be true understanding’, though there may be no limits to compassion. This may seem a contradiction in terms, but not so much for males who spend a lifetime learning empathy in the first place!

      My instinct is to analyse what it is we are commemorating in each of the examples you give. In the case of 7/7 I feel it is the triumph of people’s spirit over the evil that was perpetrated on them, the courage the victims and services displayed to the rest of us, which personally I find an inspiration for what we know ‘may well happen again’. When George was on his way to Lemnos on the Orsova he and a Canadian soldier agreed that in the first year after the war they would hold a dinner on that very ship ‘on Waterloo Day’. I doubt whether this was because they felt much empathy with their predecessors in the British Army of 1815. More likely they just wanted to celebrate winning. And I would agree with them, because of the importance of Waterloo to Europe’s history. But Agincourt? Extraordinary victory, amazing leadership, we should remember the fact that it happened, but commemorate it? I certainly don’t feel enough about it to want to do that.

      Where the ‘Great’ War is concerned, I am tempted to say that it is the static nature of its butchery and the ghastly tragedy of its causation that forever ‘get’ to us and which we are commemorating. Even though more people died in the Second World War and it went on longer, warfare by then had become mobile again and what I feel we want to commemorate there is similar to Waterloo, namely the triumph with great difficulty over a European tyranny. A part of me says, then, that each of these national anniversaries is commemorated for different reasons, some of which I don’t share (e.g. in the case of Agincourt or Bosworth), but a part of me feels you are absolutely right about the Goldilocks Principle applying to WW1: our knowledge of its world is intimate but not too intimate, perhaps, and it is curious how difficult it is to think with any sense of connection beyond one’s grandparents, whom one may have known, to ancestors one didn’t. Yes, exactly 100 years ago is the perfect circle.

      All I think I can add is that George and Kittie had interestingly opposed views on anniversaries. Archie Ripley, Kittie’s first husband and George’s Oxford friend, was born on 31 December 1866 and died on 23 October 1898. At the end of 1898 Kittie was depressed and fraught at the approach of what would have been Archie’s thirty-second birthday AND the beginning of her first new year without him. George’s response, in a letter sent to her on New Year’s Eve (!), ten weeks (!) after her husband’s death, was fearsome: ‘There is no sorrow in this anniversary — nor in any anniversary. […] Anniversaries are nothing — mere conventions: tomorrow is nothing; the New Year without Archie or with him is only a new number at the top of the newspaper.’ His attitude to time was famously linear and ‘positivist’. By contrast, on 11 May 1917 Kittie wrote a highly emotional letter to Violet Pym apologising for not answering Violet’s letter sooner, because ‘he sailed last night two years — and there ended sight — but letters will go on till June the 4th and one just lives every minute of them’; in other words the ‘circular’ view of Time was second nature to her. I feel sure George would be scathing about our present-day obsession, but even so he wanted to hold a dinner to commemorate Waterloo…

      Thank you so much for your closing words, too; I just hope that events overtake your words’ anniversary!

      2015/07/22 at 10:45 pm
  • From jennyhands on Flashback -- and tourbillions in Time (again)

    ‘Tourbillions in time’ (a powerful concept) is surely enough to explain the differences in the narratives. But I was also made to think of Captain Pat(t)erson and others recounting in 1915 the events which had devastated relatives back home. Pat(t)erson wouldn’t have wanted to tell Kittie that George had led his platoon over the top through numerous warm and bleeding bodies of men slaughtered only moments before. And, even without considering the impact on relatives of an appallingly messier version of history, I’m thinking that an account where orders were “rigidly followed” would seem to be the most appropriate to honour the sacrifice of the dead, avoiding any stain of doubt on these men and perhaps safeguarding the award of posthumous medals.

    Here in 2015, these new perspectives add a shocking twist. I’d just like to add my thanks, as a non-historian, for this astonishing blog. I’ve been riveted by the still-unfolding tale since the start of June.

    2015/07/20 at 12:30 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Flashback -- and tourbillions in Time (again)

      This beautifully expressed Comment is a valuable corrective, I find, to the way I, and perhaps others, have fallen into thinking about the story at this late stage. Thank you! We are focussed on Kittie’s point of view (it is such a pity that we have no information about Clara’s, George’s mother’s, response). We are perhaps amazed at Kittie’s proactivity and energy in seeking ‘the truth’ about George’s fate. But did she really want to know ‘the truth’ in the kind of detail that the closest military sources possessed and that we tend to want today? I doubt whether she, stalwart stout and staunch though she was, could have taken it. Even though she might not have known that, others such as Gertrude Bell, Capt Labouchere, Capt Pat(t)erson, Coote Hedley and Percy Lubbock did, and they ‘protected’ her from it. In the intimacy of Kittie’s story I/we have also perhaps forgotten that, for complex reasons, the Edwardians were masters of ‘news presentation’ and ‘spin’. I think you are probably right, therefore, about an account that closely followed the orders of the day being perceived as ‘most appropriate’ to the purposes you mention.

      2015/07/22 at 10:08 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on Letter from Alexandria

    There is something peculiarly tantalising about a correspondence of which only part survives. Percy is replying to a ‘missing’ letter that Kittie wrote on June 16. Can we infer any of her letter’s contents from what he says here?

    l rolled back through the blog and see that on that day Kittie received a letter from George’s former adjutant – causing you to wonder whether she was cheered or depressed by the fact that the Oxford & Bucks had had news of Captain Hogan’s injury but nothing at all about George. We know that Gertrude Bell (with Kittie’s connivance) had already instructed Percy to travel to Alexandria to look for George – on June 17 you blogged about Percy’s letter of June 15, in which he confirmed that he was about to depart for Egypt. Given the excellence of the Edwardian postal service, even in wartime, we might assume that Kittie’s letter of June 16 was in reply to Percy’s of the day before. (It makes little difference to this attempt at reconstruction if their letters crossed.)

    ‘I scrawl one line to go to you at once,’ he says; no doubt Kittie has begged him to write immediately. And ‘you must know by this time where and how George is. He is not in Egypt,’ is surely a response to ‘Have you found him?’ So far, so obvious. I would like to postulate further that Kittie then proposed that she herself could –or should or would – follow him to Alexandria. Percy is emphatic – ‘don’t think of coming here’; he repeats this advice – ‘don’t come here’; and he reinforces it with reasons why ‘you command the whole field best from home.’ Why would he say these things if not to deter her from a risky and in all probability futile impulse? Percy’s detailed arguments about the possible destinations of a man wounded at Gallipoli (he is resolutely not considering death or capture) incline me to think that she suggested making the journey whether George had been found or not.

    You tell us that Percy’s letter of June 15 was ‘scrumpled’. Did Kittie first hurl it into the wastepaper basket before picking up her pen? In reply to your question as to how she felt on June 16, I might posit the answer ‘desperate’. What do other followers think?

    2015/07/07 at 8:58 am
  • From John Pym on Commemoration (concluded)

    The Catch of Emotion

    ‘Aunt Kittie’ Calderon occupied a particular spot in the heart of my father, Jack Pym (1908–93), who is mentioned in passing in Patrick Miles’s post of July 3. It is not too much to say, I believe, that this was a unique spot, not least for Kittie’s loving kindness to Jack after the death of his mother Violet in 1927. Jack also valued – I am certain – Kittie’s emotional intelligence, which has been much remarked upon during the last year. Having said that, however, it must be added that Jack himself regarded, throughout his life, any overt display of emotion with a mixture of distrust and fearfulness. Kittie, on the other hand, was a shining example of how and why one should not be afraid of one’s emotions: she showed Jack, a tall shy young man, what perhaps he had hidden within himself – but which he was never entirely able to bring to the surface.

    Jack’s father’s experience in the First World War, at Gallipoli and in France, was never spoken of within the family, except in the most general terms, and only once, as far as I can remember, did Jack, an architect by profession, speak in any detail of his own experience as a sapper building bridges in Burma during the Second World War (he was only once called upon to fire his rifle in anger – at a faraway Japanese plane passing overhead: ‘But thankfully I missed…’).

    What lessons my father drew from the two world wars of the twentieth century, one of which he had lived through as a boy and the other he had experienced for six years at first hand, I never discovered and he never told me. He never revealed the need (or the taste) for any sort of public commemoration of the wars. On the whole he preferred to look forward rather than back. He did, however, tell me one revealing story that I have never forgotten.

    In September 1939, my father was at the top of a ladder in St Mary’s Hospital, Paddington, West London, helping to mount a large oblong plaque dedicated to the soldiers of the old Fifth Army. The plaque, which can still be seen, commemorates two new wards to which the soldiers had subscribed (but in the event were never built). While he was on the ladder, screwdriver in hand, word came of the invasion of Poland. ‘There I was,’ he told me, ‘screwing up a memorial to the last war, when news of the new one arrived…’ He told the story in a matter-of-fact tone, but I have never been able to recall it without a ‘catch of emotion’ – an ironic catch of emotion.

    John Pym

    2015/07/03 at 7:22 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on Fast developments

    But… But… But Patrick….

    I found this an extremely persuasive hypothesis – until I got to your comment on the last paragraph of Percy’s letter. His tone seems extraordinarily, even inappropriately, chirpy. Surely Percy knew exactly why he was going to Alexandria. Is it not significant that – as an Edwardian gentleman who therefore did not tell lies – he gives no reason at all for such a sudden and potentially risky foreign trip? What a lark indeed!

    I would dare to conjecture that Gertrude had given him very specific instructions: George is either dead, missing, or so badly injured that he cannot even dictate a message to his wife. Go AT ONCE to Egypt and Find Out. But DO NOT Tell Kittie My Fears.

    So Percy here is doing his best to sound reassuringly light-hearted. As George did rather better in his masterful description of the delights of camping on the Turkish coast. The irony of course is that Kittie had asked, even paid, Gertrude to send him. And presumably he knew that she knew that he knew…

    Edwardian mores are certainly difficult to understand at times. It always seems paradoxical that Kittie was resourceful, proactive, and possessed of considerable inner strength, yet she accepted and welcomed the way all her friends conspired to protect her. On the other hand it is easy to see why this upbeat cheerfulness was comforting when she was undoubtedly worried sick. That illogical dread that if you express your fears out loud they might become true is surely timeless.

    2015/06/17 at 4:18 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Fast developments

      Dear Clare, Many many thanks for this Comment, which as always is invigorating! As you probably guessed, I deliberately split Percy’s letter and left it ‘hanging’ at the end to see if any of our followers was shocked by his insouciance (‘chirpiness’)… Your hypothesis is, of course, justified and plausible. In particular, I think you have absolutely hit the nail on the head when you describe the ‘paradoxicality’ of Kittie’s actual strength and her friends’ desire to protect her from the truth (I shall probably have more to say about that in July). What we don’t know is how much (if at all) Kittie had been in touch with Percy since receiving the news on 11 June, just after staying with his sister and parents. There is no evidence that she had — directly. My own guess is that Kittie had concentrated on dealing with Gertrude Bell directly and the two women had agreed that there was a need for someone to go to Alexandria on Red Cross business anyway, and Percy could double that with looking for George. So I see Percy’s innocent chirpiness as a reflection of the fact that he wasn’t principally going out to look for George; if he saw him, it would be a ‘lark’, if he got news about him it would be a bonus. The sequence of letters to Kittie from Percy in Egypt is quite long (27 June to 6 August) and it’s clear he has other Red Cross business whilst he’s there. It’s worth recalling that Kittie was almost as involved in the anti-suffrage movement as George, and therefore probably was already on good terms with Bell. What I’m saying, then, is that I think the two (older) women arranged things over Percy’s head so as not to alarm him with their real fears…

      2015/06/17 at 6:22 pm
  • From James Muckle on George Calderon: a tribute

    By golly, I do enjoy contentious essays like this. There is only one thing I remember from one of the Germanists at Cambridge, whose course I soon dropped: he said the purpose of research is to rescue forgotten reputations. He admitted he’d failed to achieve this through his own Ph.D., but didn’t regret trying. I’m amazed that you say friends have said you are wasting your time writing about someone obscure. What the hell do they think academic research is all about? Do they think we must just accept that worthwhile scholars, writers, critics, thinkers disappear into obscurity and should be allowed to remain there? You make a very strong case for Calderon, and I do not have the knowledge to dispute anything you say. That’s not the point. The quality of the argument is absolutely splendid, and I hope it will be noticed, and that it will rescue his reputation.

    2015/06/12 at 8:50 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on 4 June 1915: The Third Battle of Krithia

    Rest in Peace George.

    Him now as of old I see
    Carrying his head with an air
    Courteous and virile,
    With the charm of a nature free,
    Daring, resourceful, prompt,
    In his frank and witty smile.

    By Oxford towers and streams
    Who shone among us all
    In body and brain so bold?
    Who shaped so firm his themes
    Crystal—hard in debate?
    And who hid a heart less cold?
    (Laurence Binyon)

    2015/06/04 at 8:07 pm
  • From anotherwarriorpoet on The Turkish counter-attack

    http://www.dbolitho.co.uk/gallipoli.html

    The new dawn lights the eastern sky;
    Night shades are lifted from the sea,
    The Third Brigade with courage storm
    Thy wooded heights, Gallipoli
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Australians tread Gallipoli.

    Thunderous bursts from iron mouths –
    Myriad messengers of death,
    Warships ply their deadly fire
    Watching comrades hold their breath
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    There’s hell upon Gallipoli.

    Serried ranks upon the beach,
    Courage beams in every eye
    These Australian lads can face
    Giant Death, though e’er so nigh,
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    There’s death upon Gallipoli.

    On they press in endless stream,
    Up the heights they shouting go;
    Comrades fall; but still press on
    They press the now retreating foe
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    The Turks flee on Gallipoli.

    One by one the brave lie low,
    Machine Guns, shrapnel do their work;
    Brave Australians know no fear,
    Never have been known to shirk,
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Their names carved on Gallipoli.

    Reduced, cut up, there numbers show
    The murderous fire that swept thy field;
    But still victorious they stand,
    Who never have been known to yield
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Thick dead lie on Gallipoli.

    For days they hold with grim set grip,
    Their feet firm planted on the shore,
    Repelling every fierce attack
    And cheerfully they seek for more
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Their trenches line Gallipoli.

    For thirty weary days they fight,
    For Britain’s sake they give their best;
    With uncomplaining voice they stand
    And neither look nor ask for rest
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    They’ve conquered thee, Gallipoli.

    The waves break on thy wave swept shores,
    The breeze still blows across thy hills;
    But crosses near and far abound,
    A sight that deepest grief instils
    Gallipoli! Gallipoli !
    Their graves lie on Gallipoli.

    For those brave hearts that died to show
    Australia’s worth in this dread war,
    The far off tears and sighs for those
    Who sleep beneath the cannons roar
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Thou still, shalt pay, Gallipoli.

    The few that valiant still remain,
    War worn but grim and anger yet
    To hurl full vengeance on the foe.
    Because they never can forget
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    They ask the price, Gallipoli.

    Gallipoli I warn you now,
    Australia’s sons and Turks shall meet
    Once more, and then our onslaught yet
    Shall sweep the ground beneath your feet
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Thy end’s in sight, Gallipoli.

    Upon the Graves of those that sleep,
    Upon thy wooded slope and vale,
    We shall avenge. Remember then,
    Australians cannot, will not fail,
    Gallipoli ! Gallipoli !
    Thy doom is sealed, Gallipoli.

    Staff Sergeant Sydney Bolitho
    6th Battalion A.I.F

    2015/05/01 at 11:24 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on Kittie's story

    Not so much a comment as a question.

    Several times, as I have followed this excellent blog, I have found myself wondering both about Kittie’s childless state, and whether her ‘unnamed’ illness is in fact the menopause. The latter was presumably too unmentionable ever to appear in a lady’s letters. But did Kittie ever touch on her desire to have children – the evidence suggests she enjoyed their company very much – or did she express regret that she did not? The fact that she had none by either of her two husbands suggests she may have had a gynaecological problem. Was Jim Corbet the son she wished she had had? Or was she glad not to have had sons, given their likely fate in the War? And moving into the realms of speculation, if George had had step-sons of military age or younger children of his own, would he have felt differently about enlisting himself?

    Several questions in fact!

    2015/04/30 at 5:33 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Kittie's story

      Pure gold again, Clare: thank you very much! These perceptive, penetrating questions have thrummed unerringly to their target…my thick head! I cannot understand why I never thought of the menopause as Kittie’s ‘unnamed illness’ before. OF COURSE! The overwhelming chances, I believe, are that you are right. There is good written evidence of the symptoms in August 1912, and I think I may have thought that if it were the menopause she would be over it by 1915 — but I’m quite wrong there, especially as there was no effective treatment of its causes at that time. Kittie’s age in 1912 is right (45) and in January 1915 George writes to Rothenstein that she has been ‘far from well for a long time’. Because the next specific illness mentioned in writing is ‘pernicious anaemia’ (1920), I had quite wrongly assumed that was what she was suffering from in 1912 and 1915 too. No, I think her underlying unwellness 1912-15 probably was menopause.

      On the other hand, there is some evidence that she had always suffered from anaemia. If this was caused by iron deficiency it could have affected her fertility. I haven’t found any reference in her own papers to a desire to have children, but her first husband was assuming they would have children and there is no evidence that George did not want them. There is a very veiled indication in 1905 that they had been unsuccessfully trying for children. In her writings, at least, she never expresses regret that she never had children.

      She was famously supportive of her women friends who did have babies, and one who had a miscarriage. I don’t think Jim was the son she wished she had had; she simply loved him and Vincent because they were her closest friend Nina’s children. In this connection, it’s important to know that her god-daughter Lesbia was not the child she wished she and Nina had had: Sir Walter and Nina Corbet named their daughter Lesbia because she had ‘a beaming eye’ as in Thomas Moore’s poem ‘Lesbia Hath a Beaming Eye’, set to music by the Corbets’ friend Charles Villiers Stanford. George and Kittie were godparents to countless children, who greatly valued their ability to give them fun and independent advice.

      Your ‘realms of speculation’ are also very challenging. I’d never thought of them before! I am pretty sure George’s attitude to his sons/step-sons going to the War would have been similar to his friend Henry Newbolt’s — rather hard and uncompromising by today’s standards. But if he had had step-sons of military age or younger children of his own, I do think there’s a possibility he would have done what Newbolt did, viz. worked on the home front.

      Wonderful questions, and my answers of course are not definitive!

      2015/05/06 at 10:43 am
  • From John Pym on A terrific find

    Patrick Miles alludes to Percy Lubbock’s ‘Earlham’ (Jonathan Cape, London: 1922) and ‘its great influence down the generations’. It is true that Lubbock’s memoir of his Norfolk childhood was notably well received by both readers and critics, even in some quarters rapturously received, when it first appeared. And by 1923, when Kittie was writing to Gladys Raikes about Percy’s ‘George Calderon: A Sketch from Memory’ (1921), the author’s slightly later exercise in exquisite remembrance was enjoying its fifth imprint. Indeed, up until quite recently, you could be fairly certain of finding in any self-respecting English second-hand bookshop a durable copy of Cape’s 1926 reprint of ‘Earlham’, No.6 in the unmistakable Travellers’ Library series. ‘”The Travellers’ Library” is one of the most startlingly cheap series I have come across since the War,’ a writer for ‘The Daily Graphic’ reported. ‘The binding is blue and gold, the type is admirable, the books slip into the pocket like sea-lions into water, and best of all, the books are just the ones that everyone wants to keep, but most of us have mislaid.’ Since Percy’s death in 1965, however, I think it is true to say that until it came out of copyright (and into the tender mercies of the internet) no publisher thought it worthwhile to issue a new edition of ‘Earlham’ – a book that, perhaps, ninety-three years after its first publication, deserves reassessment…? (No, not ‘perhaps’, make that ‘surely’!) Consider Sir Edmund Gosse’s estimation of its author: ‘He is in the front rank of living prose artists. If this has not been said before, I take the liberty to say it now, and to invite examination of my claim, which I am ready to rest upon a passage from any chapter of “Earlham”.’

    2015/03/28 at 3:00 pm
  • From Katy George on Selected Publications of George Calderon

    Hi, I recently purchased some items from a charity shop in Deal and amongst them found an original letter in it’s original envelope to a Mrs Raikes from Katharine Calderon. In it there are references to ‘Percy’,(on doing some research, I believe to be Percy Lubbock) and George. There is also a reference to Earlham. If you are interested in the letter, please send me an email. I really enjoyed researching the letter and finding out all about the life of George and Katharine.
    Katy George.

    2015/03/15 at 9:55 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Selected Publications of George Calderon

      Katy, this is SENSATIONAL! It would have been worth running the blog for the last eight months just for this, and I’m so glad you found us when you were researching Katharine (Kittie, as we call her)! Letters from Kittie are very rare, because all her letters to her best friend Nina Corbet were burned bar one, she herself destroyed all her letters to George (why???) bar one, and her voluminous letters to Percy Lubbock seem to have been lost in WWII. It’s utterly amazing: a new letter of Kittie’s has not come to light for, I think, four years! I really cannot thank you enough or admire your proactivity enough in tracking us Calderonians down. Mrs Gladys Raikes was a friend of the Pyms at Foxwold (to find out all about Foxwold, where the Calderons spent Christmas 1914, tap it into the search box on the blog), and possibly also of Nina Corbet-Astley’s, as the address on the envelope that you have sent me a scan of is near where Nina lived. Gladys Raikes’s address at Ashwell, near Baldock, is in both of Kittie’s address books (i.e. 1895-1942 and 1942-50). She may have been born in 1877, making her ten years younger than Kittie. Her husband, Arthur Whittington Raikes, died in 1921. Her son was a hero of the defence of Calais in 1940. I see from the Web that she also designed a garden at Yalding in Kent, so perhaps that is how this letter came to be in your part of the world. Designing gardens would be another thing she had in common with Kittie. The scans of the letter itself also show that it is INVALUABLE to this biographer, because it confirms that William Rothenstein gave a talk about George, probably in Oxford, in 1923, and because in the letter Kittie compares Percy Lubbock’s ‘Life’ of George (in other words she regarded Percy’s ‘Sketch from Memory’ as George’s first biography!) with Percy’s second book, ‘Earlham’. Ab-so-lut-ely fascinating and so fantastic a discovery by you that I must post about it next week when the War allows me to. Meanwhile, though, I can’t tell you how grateful I am to you. It seems almost uncanny that your full name, I gather from your emails, is not just KATHARINE, but GEORGE! Patrick

      2015/03/19 at 3:06 pm
  • From Patrick Miles on Back to Brockhurst

    Dear Jennifer, thanks so much for this, and for introducing me to your really delightful website/blog. It may sound ‘naff’ of me to say this, but I assure you it’s lovely and very interesting for me. I’d always assumed Fort Brockhurst was ‘in the country’ in 1915, but I see now I was wrong, and this has affected how I see Kittie coming to stay at Brockhurst in May. All v.b., Patrick

    2015/03/15 at 9:13 pm
  • From jppyro on Back to Brockhurst

    Am Gosport born and bred, and it is actually IN Gosport. Interesting post, love learning about our local history 🙂

    2015/03/09 at 7:04 pm
  • From John Pym on Who was George Calderon (again)?

    Evan Connell’s ‘elasticated biography’ of George Armstrong Custer, Son of the Morning Star (North Point Press, San Francisco: 1984), ends with a Bibliography of 12 tight-packed pages but a mere nine lines of ‘thanks’ (including one line deprecating the Denver Public Library for not admitting visitors) in which an ‘indebtedness’ to only two named individuals, the historians John M. Carroll and Charles K. Mills, is acknowledged – deadpan – ‘for much informative correspondence’. The book, in other words, is Connell’s and Connell’s alone. The responsibility is the author’s; he was beholden to no one and received wisdom meant nothing to him: with the result that the sheer freedom with which the book is written and structured is both immense and awe-inspiring. There are no footnotes: the reader is required to take on trust the veracity of every fact, every reported spoken sentence. (‘I could never,’ Connell once said, ‘trust anyone again who lied to me.’) Evan Connell began his research into the life of General Custer, once the most famously identifiable American soldier of all time and one of the most written about figures in American history, with the idea he might compose a brief life, in the manner perhaps of one of his biographical essays gathered in the collections A Long Desire (1979) and The White Lantern (1980). But the deeper he delved into the primary source material and as his knowledge grew of the multiple unresolved controversies surrounding Custer’s life, the more it became clear to this solitary American author – an author who all his life wrote exactly what he pleased, disdaining any thought of a ‘publisher’s contract’ before he sat down to his task – that he would have to drive his own wagon along a track that he had cut himself. The result is a wholly singular work of history, memory and biography (multiple biographies, in fact); and it is one which – through the medium of a ‘life of Custer’ – simultaneously, and without strain, illuminates the mind, personality and beliefs of Evan Connell. An unforgettable book: a work of art.

    2015/03/08 at 7:08 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Who was George Calderon (again)?

      This is a very powerful example of the standards the modern biographer should set him/herself… Several followers have remarked on how thought-provoking this comment is! Thank you.

      2015/03/10 at 9:50 am
  • From Clare Hopkins on 9 January 1915: Commission

    Me again. Come on – all you other followers of Calderonia – I’d be very interested to read your comments too!

    You ask if there was a connection between the Oxford and Bucks Light Infantry and Calderon’s old College, Trinity. There was not, although five officers of that regiment are listed on the Board of Honour in the College’s War Memorial Library. One of these is Reginald Tiddy (1880-1916), the College’s first fellow and tutor in Oxford University’s new-fangled school of English Literature. Like Calderon, Tiddy appears in the Dictionary of National Biography. And like Calderon, he had considerable difficulty getting accepted for active service. My source for his life and military career is the biographical memoir that forms the preface of Tiddy’s only book, the posthumously published ‘The Mummer’s Play’ (1923). The author of the memoir was his close friend David Pye.

    Reginald Tiddy was 34 at the outbreak of war and he had a muscular physique. He was a keen Morris dancer and enthusiastic member of the English Folk Dance Society. But he was also severely asthmatic and very short-sighted – ‘almost helpless without his glasses’.

    He had no desire to fight. To Tiddy, Pye explained, War meant ‘the annihilation of all he valued’. But as early as September 1914 he wrote resolutely of his intention ‘to go to the army doctors and see if they will have me for a commission. I cannot honestly say I hope they will, as it seems to me that officers will stand a very poor chance of surviving this war, but I cannot really see how I can keep out of it, having had quite a fair amount of happy life, when these poor kids of twenty are being shot like this.’

    Like Calderon, Tiddy went into training. In the autumn of 1914 he drilled with the Oxford University OTC, and while preparing for a series of lectures on Folk Literature at the British Museum, he joined with the Inns of Court OTC. Again, like Calderon. The two men had at least one mutual friend, Herbert Blakiston, President of Trinity College 1907–38. Did Calderon also know Tiddy’s fellow Morris enthusiast Cecil Sharp?

    In December 1914 Reginald Tiddy was rejected for foreign service. He applied several times for a commission in a territorial battalion, but was rejected again. On December 12 he wrote to a friend, ‘Farquharson wants me to try for a Home Defence thing, so I’m going to, but unless one knows a Colonel there’s not much chance. I don’t!’ Tiddy was not entirely without influential friends however: Arthur Farquharson was a tutor at his undergraduate college, University, and a Lieutenant-Colonel in the OTC.

    In January 1915 Tiddy travelled to Stockport where he was ‘once more ploughed for the Cheshires’. Still he did not give up. His next attempt was by means of ‘a deucedly strenuous time at Oxford in the “Special Course”, which starts at 7.40 a.m. every day. But I learn a great deal which might be useful some day… I was made to drill a squad and rather fetched the C.O. by the ferocity and swagger which I put on for his benefit, and by… my most brilliant smile.’ It worked. On 16 February 1915 Reginald Tiddy was gazetted as a second lieutenant and he joined the 2/4th battalion of the Oxford and Bucks at Northampton. Unlike Calderon, he was not a natural soldier. He found the training ‘devilish strenuous’ and had regular asthma attacks, and a long period of convalescence after flu. In November 1915 he was refused for overseas service by a medical board, and left the battalion. The published correspondence suggests that Farquharson tried hard to persuade his friend to transfer to the safer service of the Intelligence Corps – ‘where his faculties would be less wasted, and to leave the infantry work to others’ – but he was adamant. In January 1916 he wrote triumphantly, ‘I passed my medical board with great success, and my colonel tells me he will have me back if a vacancy occurs…’ He re-joined the battalion in March, and sailed for France in the middle of May.

    Reginald John Elliot Tiddy was killed by a shell falling in the trenches near Laventie in Northern France on the night of 10 August 1916.

    2015/01/09 at 5:10 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on (Commentary)

    Happy New Year Patrick! Sorry to hear you have been laid low by flu.
    I was interested in your two possible explanations for George’s statement that he could not visit William Rothenstein because of Kittie. Either that – after almost losing him in battle – she had become emotionally dependent on having him safe at home beside her. Or that – given her ongoing poor health – he felt too responsible for her welfare to leave her even for a visit to Gloucestershire.
    But surely there is a third, simpler, explanation. Is not George just bringing out his wife as a polite excuse because he does not actually want to stay with William Rothenstein at all? Using his impeccable Edwardian manners he gushes, ‘I treasure your invitation to come and stay with you: a thing I should like to do of all things’ — but then brings out a cast-iron reason why he can’t come. No chivalrous gentleman could object to a husband staying at home to care for his wife. George ends his letter with a promise – to visit at ‘a more peaceful time’ – that is so vague as to be meaningless.
    Does this mean that George is exaggerating Kittie’s fragile mental and/or physical state? Are there other possible reasons why he didn’t want to visit his old friend? I have no idea… How glad I am that I am not a biographer – what a difficult business it is!

    2015/01/04 at 9:12 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on (Commentary)

      My dear Clare, it’s lovely to hear from you again, and I wish you and yours a very happy New Year!

      As always, this is a very fine comment; and much appreciated. Thank you. My immediate reaction was: ‘Oh goodness, yes, Patrick, you are suffering from biographer’s tunnel vision again (or the flu), you can no longer see the wood for trees, always go for the simpler/more obvious explanation!’ For, indeed, your explanation is the more direct one, and your analysis of his ‘impeccable Edwardian manners’ syndrome faultless.

      Yes, certainly, he did not want to go to Iles Farm, Far Oakridge, in deepest Gloucestershire, either with or without Kittie… I’m sure you’re right.

      But I wouldn’t want followers to think this was because he didn’t like the place, or had turned against the Rothenstein family. In April 1914 George wrote Alice Rothenstein a long, ecstatic letter (definitely not just ‘Edwardian gush’) after staying with them. In November 1914 Rothenstein wrote George two long letters, which I couldn’t quote on the blog as they are not out of copyright, from which it’s clear that their personal relations are as close as ever. Kittie was also a tremendous fan of Will and Alice.

      I think probably, on balance, George’s description of Kittie’s need for him at home and her medical fragility, is true. However, I think your comment about his fob-off promise to visit ‘at a more peaceful time’ is also bang on. I don’t think he thought how that phrasing might sound to Rothenstein, because his mind was so completely focussed on the ‘immediate task’ — getting through the medical, receiving a commission, and going to the most dangerous part of the Front he could find…

      This explanation produces what I now realise would be a typical Calderon paradox. He wanted to cherish Kittie and support her, so he couldn’t leave her to go to Gloucestershire, yet he was actually using every minute he was at home to get back into the Army and leave her! This is unfortunately what soon happened, and as I hope to convey over the next few weeks his and Kittie’s closest friends felt he shouldn’t be doing it; that he was ignoring the effect it was having on Kittie.

      Well, writing biography may at times be like ‘chewing barbed wire’ as Churchill described the Western Front, but how pleasant it is when, with finesse, your commentators make it more digestible for you!

      2015/01/05 at 3:03 pm
  • From Clare Hopkins on Complex, yes

    Oh Patrick! I can see that being George’s biographer/blogger requires very similar levels of staunchness and stoutness as are being displayed by poor, long-suffering Kittie. Thank you on behalf of your readers for enduring all the slaughter, the destruction and most especially the stupidity of war in order that we can experience George’s life in such a vivid way. I for one appreciate your daily blog entries enormously.

    I have to put my hand up and admit to being that historian (I’m not really, but thank you) who accused George of ‘prancing around on a horse’ when he could have been doing something useful like his old college friend, Laurence Binyon. I may even have used the words ‘he should have acted his age.’ In fact, as soon as George crossed the channel, my views on him started to change. This is very early for any man with no military background to be serving on the front line – surely almost all the other officers on active service in 1914 were either career or territorial army officers. So all credit to him for his determination to achieve his goal. And as your blog title reminds us, he was a writer – I am now willing to give him the benefit of the doubt and believe that he wanted to go to war not just to have fun but in order to write about it. And to do that properly, I can see why he wanted to fight rather than interpret from the sidelines. I hope somebody, soon, will refer to him as ‘that good egg”.

    And as for Binyon – at the present date in the blog, he is strolling to work every day in the British Museum, and returning home to tea with his wife and daughters. He will not volunteer to scrub floors in a hospital in France until the summer of 1915. Perhaps it will be the example, or even the death, of his old friend George that inspires him…

    2014/10/31 at 5:51 pm
    • From Patrick Miles on Complex, yes

      Dear Clare, I hugely appreciate this; thank you so much! So as GC’s stocks go down a bit with me, they rise with you…you have restored the balance,then, with your judicious comments. You’re so encouraging. And I am extremely grateful to you for telling us what Binyon is doing ‘in parallel’. (I have put my parish mag. piece in the post to you today.) I think the story of George’s stay in hospital over the next three weeks will bear out your wise comment about it being ‘very early for any man with no military background to be serving on the front line’… All best as ever.

      2014/10/31 at 7:06 pm
  • From Graeme Wright on 'The Godfather in War'

    Fine pic of the old chucker, Patrick.

    2014/08/28 at 6:43 pm